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At a former job I once had a superintendent that hated me. This hatred spawned from a nurse supervisor that had resentments towards me and she told this superintendent horrible lies about me which she decided to believe. When a new nurse manager was hired for our department, all those tales regarding myself were also told to her. Naturally this caused my life there to be very difficult (which was the intent of the nurse supervisor mentioned)..
After a few years of being treated as a threat and a bad nurse/person, the negative energy directed towards me began to wear me down and caused me to begin projecting myself as exactly what these people believed about me.
You see, I came to a point that I began expecting the negativity and in turn I amplified their energy towards myself, which caused me even more of the same as well as causing me to be less effective as a nurse. My own abilities declined as I began having difficulty seeing myself as the good nurse that I in fact was.
Their interpretation of reality became my own reality as my vibration of energy began to harmonize with theirs.
For an empath who hadn’t yet realized that I easily absorb the emotional energy of others, this was often the case (and another subject I’ll write about in the future as we are all empaths to varying degrees).
This is one example of the Universal Law of Attraction at work, and I propose that had I been aware of what I was doing and how it was affecting my experience, I could have changed the outcome as well as relieved myself of a whole lot of stress and anxiety. But then again I’m very grateful, because that experience played a major role in bringing me where I am today.
The LOA is always at work in our lives.
It’s there always responding to our thoughts and emotional vibrations, without judgment, always in perfect match to them.
Our thinking, and most importantly our feelings, set in motion everything in our body and all of our experiences. Upon realizing this is a reality and we take responsibility for our inner self, with practice, we can learn how to use this to our advantage and can consciously create more of the things we desire to experience.
These Laws go back to the beginning of humanity and are real.
Energy attracts other energy with which it’s in vibrational resonance with.
If you pluck the E string of a guitar in proximity of another guitar, the same string on that guitar will begin to vibrate (as long as the two are in tune with each other).
This is how the opera singer breaks the wine glass. If she finds the tone (vibration/frequency) of the wine glass (done by tapping the glass), she can replicate that tone with her voice and the glass will begin to resonate (vibrate) at the same tone and the amplified effect of energy will cause it to shatter.
Have you ever noticed that if you are around someone who is depressed and gloomy you begin to feel depressed and gloomy as well?
This is an example of how your body and emotions are resonating with the emotional energy (vibrations) that this person is projecting upon you.
If enough of that energy is around you, just like the wine glass and the opera singer, you can realize a profound negative effect.
Both the physical and nonphysical aspects of the Universe are made up of energy and intelligence that vibrates. Nothing is ever at rest.
The difference between the physical and nonphysical is the rate of vibration.
The physical is what we can see with our eyes, like a tree or another person, and the nonphysical is that which we cannot see, like a radio wave.
All energy travels in waves. Water, light, air, sound, heat and emotion. Waves are vibrations/frequencies and can never be created or destroyed. They only change forms.
Thus, your beliefs are energy too. They create thoughts which convey feelings that are energy and the brain is the most powerful electromagnetic processor ever created.
Once processed, your beliefs and thoughts create an emotion (e = energy = motion). This is where our true power lies.
Do your beliefs cause good feelings, or do they cause suffering?
Positive thinking on it’s own will not get us what we want.
However, being positive is the beginning, or foundation, that we can build on.
To create a new world for ourselves we have to let go of all the self sabotaging beliefs that hold us back and, to be effective and not give up, we must take baby steps in doing so. This takes practice and patience, study and reflection. We need to become immersed in learning and practicing.
We have to become more self aware which requires self honesty.
This is not an easy process but well worth the work. The actual creation process comes from your beliefs, your thoughts, your words and finally you actions, in that order.
We must decide what we want (ask), give it our attention, our energy and focus (believe) and let go of our attachment to the outcome and allow it (receive).
Belief, is the first step in this creation process.
We have to address the fact that we’ve built up a lifetime of subconscious limiting beliefs that must be cleared before we can be in alignment with that which we desire.
We have to re-wire our brains and this is done through repetition. The result is the replacing of old limiting thoughts with new ones.
What we are taught as children, as well as from past negative experiences, is that whatever result that comes from an act, expect more of the same. We tend to believe these expectations are a means of protecting ourselves. This is a great defense mechanism in regards to dangers like hot stoves, but in fact, when this defense mechanism is applied to situations of the heart, they actually bring us more of the same as the Universe interprets our expectations as desires.
When we are hurt in a relationship, we are then leery/suspect of further relationships. The Universe interprets this as an expected desire and always wants to give us that which we desire. Going into a new relationship with suspicion and negative expectations is not the best formula for success is it? Hence, another bad outcome.
But, you might say, “What if I have great expectations? Then if it goes wrong, I’ll be hurt even more!”
Have you ever done something that had an essence of danger for the thrill of it? Were you focused on the danger or the thrill? My guess is that you were focused on the enjoyment of the thrill, or you likely wouldn’t have done it otherwise.
I have a fear of performing my martial arts skills in front of an audience. This results in a profound negative result when I do my rank testing. It causes me to become very nervous and I forget things and make mistakes that I never otherwise make. It also causes me to dread rank testings and therefore to not enjoy them.
This is something I have to learn to overcome and the biggest obstacle is learning to believe in myself in order to become more confident (belief = confidence). Won’t this, in turn, naturally cause me to improve immensely resulting in a more positive outcome?
While I know this sounds simple, I’m not meaning to imply that it’s easy. But, with persistent focus on the task of believing, we can re-wire our brain and accomplish it.
The cold hard fact is, doubts, fear and suspicion works against us, not for us.
By now, if not in the beginning, you have realized that I am a believer in the LOA. But, if you think I have it all down pat in my life, I regret that you’re mistaken. I am and always will be a work in progress, but I know I’m on the right path because I’ve seen it work in my life in the short time since being exposed to it.
It has changed my life, allowing me to accomplish, do and experience things, that just a short while ago I didn’t believe to be possible.
My being able to start my own business and make a living, in part, telling you about these things and working with the awesome people now in my life are a direct result of re-creating my life by setting my purpose and intent, dropping my baggage (I’m still dropping) and moving forward inbelieving and being what I desire, and not looking back.
I’m still a meat eating, sometimes foolish and often fallible man. But through the guidance and support of some great coach’s and colleagues, and the awesome positive energy they project at me, I’m advancing at warp speed!
I’m “burning the bridges to my past” and I go down my new path taking baby steps one at a time, with anticipation and excitement.
It’s my intent and desire that my fellow nurses experience the same and my hope that you’ll consider what I’ve expressed to you in this series of articles.
I would really love to hear you responses on this and other subjects. Questions and/or suggestions on things you’d like me to write about in the future would also be welcome!
Just place you comments below and please subscribe to my blog so you don’t miss anything as I’ll be expanding on it soon with several articles from myself and other nurses in my circle.
There are many new things coming at www.CoachPerg.com so stay tuned,and if you would like to submit your own article to be shared here please contact me!
All the best!
Coach Perg
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